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I love Mormon mom message boards (I know, I know), and every so often I see a thread like "How long did you date before you married? I have (another) question I hope you don't mind answering.
A lady in my ward gripped my forearm tightly and looked directly into my eyes and said, "DON'T WAIT!Engaged after 2 or 3 months, were going to be engaged for five months but decided to cut it to one month to get-r-done before BYU started back up (thinking, well, we 'know' it's right, so why put it off and have that much longer to be tempted. So, married after about 4 months total..middle of divorce 5 years later after I stopped believing in the church (and that temple feeling, etc.). Any one of our parents should have smacked me upside the head, but all were happy so long as i felt good about it in the temple. rainwriter Re: short courtships Elder Oakes does say in his talk "Divorce," "If you wish to marry well, inquire well.Associations through “hanging out” or exchanging information on the Internet are not a sufficient basis for marriage.Well, we were in the same student stake in the area, and lo and behold the following sunday, I see this girl holding hands with another guy..biggie, but I found out, that she was already engaged to this guy, and as I said, this was 1 WEEK LATER!!!! So much for the so-called "Spirit confirming the one you are to marry", that is complete BS!! ) IT compleltly threw the so called spirit thing right out the window.I had 3 different girls in an 8 month period tell me they had prayed and I was the one. I will outline a typical mormon dating scenario....and girl see each other in class or at sunday school.
I started seeing the sister of a friend, who was a missionary companion of mine. The third time, I was asked, with crying eyes, if I was ever going to propose to her, as she had prayed and been told, "Beyond a Shadow of a Doubt", that I was the one for her! (Never mind that another girl, told me the same thing, only a week earlier).